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Jonas wrote:
Mon Apr 09, 2018 10:34:11 pm
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Mon Apr 09, 2018 8:34:50 pm
Look Jonas, it's not really worth going down the rabbit hole because it's a moot point. We're both out, your head is so far up Julie's vagina cavity that you are only going to see things through your biased opinion. When I saw her etsy, it had her full name on the profile, and there's a way to contact her via the messaging service. Sure, her identity is revealed that she is Jeff's wife, but do you know what her real name is, what she looks like, and can you contact her outside of the game? Because I sure don't know what either Jeff or Julie's true identity is. It says NO QUESTIONS ASKED, but evidently, they bypassed that rule because of her relationship with Jeff. "any other contact information or identity information".... Her ETSY ACCOUNT IS IDENTITY INFORMATION. HER ETSY ACCOUNT IS CONTACT INFORMATION OUTSIDE OF THE GAME. IT SAYS NO QUESTIONS ASKED. IT IS IN THE FUCKING RULES. It's annoying as fuck that you're trying to gaslight me to make me sound like I'm fucking crazy. Of course the mods and Jeff are going to side with her and your ass is going to side with her because you have been her little butt buddy since day one.

Now your point about her sharing her art, EVEN WITH ME. We had absolutely no feud when she shared with me her art. We had recently joined tribes together, we were getting to know each other- that was one of the very first things she said to me, when I had asked what she did for a living. So no, it wouldn't have been a "a moment to throw aside the petty squabble between you two and you could have moved forward all the better for it." You don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jonas. Stick with the IT work, because you're obviously shitty at investigating things. Your opinion isn't legitimate because you're biased AF. I thoroughly explained to you what was going on when it was happening, and you didn't come up with your BS investigation before. So sorry, I'm not going to take your ass seriously.

Well damn, Cole. I hadn't realized you felt quite THIS strongly about the whole thing. I mean shit. I haven't done a thing to you outside of taking a look at rules and laying out how that could be seen. The fact that we are both out is exactly why bias has absolutely nothing to do with this at all. So gaslighting you? No. I can see where someone could see the rules that way. But when a majority aren't, that's when it's time to accept that your interpretation was wrong. It sucks to be wrong and it can hurt, but you accept and drop it.
It does me zero good to be biased. So I assure you, this has nothing to do with a bias about anything.

Now here you do make a good point. I was unaware that that had occurred pre-merge (barely).
So here's a suggestion for you, how about you quit being a complete asshole for no reason? I'm trying to piece everything together because I don't have all the tools. I haven't been insulting you. I haven't been being an asshole to you. I've been looking at info and sharing what I've got.
You tried to tell a lot of people that you were a good guy or whatever and that you didn't say shit about anyone and when you were saying that I gave you the benefit of the doubt. All you've done since, though, is show that (at least online in this game) you're an asshole.
And to be honest, I didn't believe most of what you said before anyways. You were shifty. Information since has proven that I was correct in not believing you. You also tried to claim you hadn't said anything negative about Julie and that all of her attacks (in public) were without cause. Based on your behavior since (and knowing that Julie was in the conversation where you were talking about voting her out), I'd wager to say that was all bullshit.


Now yes, all of this is moot ultimately. It's just an online game.
So then let's call it a truce, both of us quit being assholes, and quit trying to insult people where it's not necessary (I'm not Chrissy or Julie trying to shit on you constantly here)?
*slow clap*
Jonas you're an angel. This game does not deserve you!
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Jonas wrote:
Mon Apr 09, 2018 10:34:11 pm
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Mon Apr 09, 2018 8:34:50 pm
Look Jonas, it's not really worth going down the rabbit hole because it's a moot point. We're both out, your head is so far up Julie's vagina cavity that you are only going to see things through your biased opinion. When I saw her etsy, it had her full name on the profile, and there's a way to contact her via the messaging service. Sure, her identity is revealed that she is Jeff's wife, but do you know what her real name is, what she looks like, and can you contact her outside of the game? Because I sure don't know what either Jeff or Julie's true identity is. It says NO QUESTIONS ASKED, but evidently, they bypassed that rule because of her relationship with Jeff. "any other contact information or identity information".... Her ETSY ACCOUNT IS IDENTITY INFORMATION. HER ETSY ACCOUNT IS CONTACT INFORMATION OUTSIDE OF THE GAME. IT SAYS NO QUESTIONS ASKED. IT IS IN THE FUCKING RULES. It's annoying as fuck that you're trying to gaslight me to make me sound like I'm fucking crazy. Of course the mods and Jeff are going to side with her and your ass is going to side with her because you have been her little butt buddy since day one.

Now your point about her sharing her art, EVEN WITH ME. We had absolutely no feud when she shared with me her art. We had recently joined tribes together, we were getting to know each other- that was one of the very first things she said to me, when I had asked what she did for a living. So no, it wouldn't have been a "a moment to throw aside the petty squabble between you two and you could have moved forward all the better for it." You don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jonas. Stick with the IT work, because you're obviously shitty at investigating things. Your opinion isn't legitimate because you're biased AF. I thoroughly explained to you what was going on when it was happening, and you didn't come up with your BS investigation before. So sorry, I'm not going to take your ass seriously.

Well damn, Cole. I hadn't realized you felt quite THIS strongly about the whole thing. I mean shit. I haven't done a thing to you outside of taking a look at rules and laying out how that could be seen. The fact that we are both out is exactly why bias has absolutely nothing to do with this at all. So gaslighting you? No. I can see where someone could see the rules that way. But when a majority aren't, that's when it's time to accept that your interpretation was wrong. It sucks to be wrong and it can hurt, but you accept and drop it.
It does me zero good to be biased. So I assure you, this has nothing to do with a bias about anything.

Now here you do make a good point. I was unaware that that had occurred pre-merge (barely).
So here's a suggestion for you, how about you quit being a complete asshole for no reason? I'm trying to piece everything together because I don't have all the tools. I haven't been insulting you. I haven't been being an asshole to you. I've been looking at info and sharing what I've got.
You tried to tell a lot of people that you were a good guy or whatever and that you didn't say shit about anyone and when you were saying that I gave you the benefit of the doubt. All you've done since, though, is show that (at least online in this game) you're an asshole.
And to be honest, I didn't believe most of what you said before anyways. You were shifty. Information since has proven that I was correct in not believing you. You also tried to claim you hadn't said anything negative about Julie and that all of her attacks (in public) were without cause. Based on your behavior since (and knowing that Julie was in the conversation where you were talking about voting her out), I'd wager to say that was all bullshit.


Now yes, all of this is moot ultimately. It's just an online game.
So then let's call it a truce, both of us quit being assholes, and quit trying to insult people where it's not necessary (I'm not Chrissy or Julie trying to shit on you constantly here)?
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lol this is crazy. I liked you alot cole but you were very difficult as an ally because you were so stubborn about game moves based entirely on emotion and those put a huge target on your head just before and after the merge. Like chrissy obviously wasnt super against you and julie didnt care about you either till you decided you had some vendetta with her. it was so fruuuustrating that you couldnt see that no one was gunna vote julie that tribal and how that vote didnt even matter. yes i would have preferred to get out a threat over the inactive (hosts ur up yourselves lol if u have a chance to take out a threat you take it out, if you want inactives out then kick them) but once it was clear that wasnt happening you had to let it go man. I think while you are a very headstrong individual and that helps you a lot in these games you are just too emotional which is something beautiful about you but also something frustrating about you.

if you think about the game like chess i feel like everyone wants to think of themselves as the king (or queen lbr) of their own game but you gotta look at the game as objectively as possible and realise what piece you actually are at that time in the game. At that time we were pawns and ryan and chrissy coulda easily voted us out so you we had to be quiet. another time we coulda been knights or castles and the power in our hands but you gotta WAIT for those moments not try and force em.

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lol this is crazy. I liked you alot cole but you were very difficult as an ally because you were so stubborn about game moves based entirely on emotion and those put a huge target on your head just before and after the merge. Like chrissy obviously wasnt super against you and julie didnt care about you either till you decided you had some vendetta with her. it was so fruuuustrating that you couldnt see that no one was gunna vote julie that tribal and how that vote didnt even matter. yes i would have preferred to get out a threat over the inactive (hosts ur up yourselves lol if u have a chance to take out a threat you take it out, if you want inactives out then kick them) but once it was clear that wasnt happening you had to let it go man. I think while you are a very headstrong individual and that helps you a lot in these games you are just too emotional which is something beautiful about you but also something frustrating about you.

if you think about the game like chess i feel like everyone wants to think of themselves as the king (or queen lbr) of their own game but you gotta look at the game as objectively as possible and realise what piece you actually are at that time in the game. At that time we were pawns and ryan and chrissy coulda easily voted us out so you we had to be quiet. another time we coulda been knights or castles and the power in our hands but you gotta WAIT for those moments not try and force em.

love u tho brudda.
beautifully said. i agree with you 100% that i am stubborn as fuck, and i'm sure i wasn't the easiest person to be an ally with - thanks for putting up with me haha. i'm new to playing these games, and still learning how to perfect my game. you're right, moving forward in these games, i need to put my emotions aside. it's difficult though, in the moment.
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For me, I am incapable of putting my feelings aside so I try to use them to my advantage. I often gun hard for inactives or people who aren't as controversial. I think Patricks right in your stubbornness. I think you have to pick your battles. Having a vendetta with Julie in teh game actually helped both of you out. It's fine to have enemies, but you can't let your hatred of them cloud your end goal.
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For me, I am incapable of putting my feelings aside so I try to use them to my advantage. I often gun hard for inactives or people who aren't as controversial. I think Patricks right in your stubbornness. I think you have to pick your battles. Having a vendetta with Julie in teh game actually helped both of you out. It's fine to have enemies, but you can't let your hatred of them cloud your end goal.
word. i can relate with you when you say you are incapable of putting feels aside, i feel like i thrived off of the hate as strange as that sounds. it made me that much more passionate to try and reach my end goal whatever it takes, in the heat of the moment. you're right. in order to be successful in this game, i need to learn to choose my battles. patrick told me i was playing way too hard at that moment when i was pushing him and ryan to try and vote julie off. in fact, i even proposed voting chrissy off at that moment. i was thinking purely from my hot head at that moment. i'm lucky that they didn't just flip on me and vote me right then and there. looking back, i can see why patrick chose me for anger. icon_wacko

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Jonas wrote:
Mon Apr 09, 2018 10:34:11 pm
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Look Jonas, it's not really worth going down the rabbit hole because it's a moot point. We're both out, your head is so far up Julie's vagina cavity that you are only going to see things through your biased opinion. When I saw her etsy, it had her full name on the profile, and there's a way to contact her via the messaging service. Sure, her identity is revealed that she is Jeff's wife, but do you know what her real name is, what she looks like, and can you contact her outside of the game? Because I sure don't know what either Jeff or Julie's true identity is. It says NO QUESTIONS ASKED, but evidently, they bypassed that rule because of her relationship with Jeff. "any other contact information or identity information".... Her ETSY ACCOUNT IS IDENTITY INFORMATION. HER ETSY ACCOUNT IS CONTACT INFORMATION OUTSIDE OF THE GAME. IT SAYS NO QUESTIONS ASKED. IT IS IN THE FUCKING RULES. It's annoying as fuck that you're trying to gaslight me to make me sound like I'm fucking crazy. Of course the mods and Jeff are going to side with her and your ass is going to side with her because you have been her little butt buddy since day one.

Now your point about her sharing her art, EVEN WITH ME. We had absolutely no feud when she shared with me her art. We had recently joined tribes together, we were getting to know each other- that was one of the very first things she said to me, when I had asked what she did for a living. So no, it wouldn't have been a "a moment to throw aside the petty squabble between you two and you could have moved forward all the better for it." You don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jonas. Stick with the IT work, because you're obviously shitty at investigating things. Your opinion isn't legitimate because you're biased AF. I thoroughly explained to you what was going on when it was happening, and you didn't come up with your BS investigation before. So sorry, I'm not going to take your ass seriously.

Well damn, Cole. I hadn't realized you felt quite THIS strongly about the whole thing. I mean shit. I haven't done a thing to you outside of taking a look at rules and laying out how that could be seen. The fact that we are both out is exactly why bias has absolutely nothing to do with this at all. So gaslighting you? No. I can see where someone could see the rules that way. But when a majority aren't, that's when it's time to accept that your interpretation was wrong. It sucks to be wrong and it can hurt, but you accept and drop it.
It does me zero good to be biased. So I assure you, this has nothing to do with a bias about anything.

Now here you do make a good point. I was unaware that that had occurred pre-merge (barely).
So here's a suggestion for you, how about you quit being a complete asshole for no reason? I'm trying to piece everything together because I don't have all the tools. I haven't been insulting you. I haven't been being an asshole to you. I've been looking at info and sharing what I've got.
You tried to tell a lot of people that you were a good guy or whatever and that you didn't say shit about anyone and when you were saying that I gave you the benefit of the doubt. All you've done since, though, is show that (at least online in this game) you're an asshole.
And to be honest, I didn't believe most of what you said before anyways. You were shifty. Information since has proven that I was correct in not believing you. You also tried to claim you hadn't said anything negative about Julie and that all of her attacks (in public) were without cause. Based on your behavior since (and knowing that Julie was in the conversation where you were talking about voting her out), I'd wager to say that was all bullshit.


Now yes, all of this is moot ultimately. It's just an online game.
So then let's call it a truce, both of us quit being assholes, and quit trying to insult people where it's not necessary (I'm not Chrissy or Julie trying to shit on you constantly here)?
dude. you don't have to tell me that i'm an asshole. i KNOW that i'm an asshole. lmfao. i feel like you're super passive aggressive dude. people that act super nice like you are always low key dicks and try to make little digs, and act so shocked when they get called out for it. how the fuck was i shifty? you acted so high and mighty and treated me like i was a huge douche bag for supposedly directly telling julie that she was stupid, which never fucking happened. when julie "called me out" she said tons of fucked up shit to me like i was a pussy, a fucker, all kinds of rude things, and i didn't see you stick up for me like you stuck up for her? yeah, that's why it was obvious that you were working with her. you adamantly defended her, even when she was in the wrong.

yeah, i find it irritating that you assumed that i "didn't put our petty arguments aside" when she ~graced~ me with showing her art. fuck me for thinking that you're biased when you literally said that you were biased about wanting julie to win in another thread. don't tell me to drop something when you made an entire post trying to call me out how wrong i am and how you deem my opinion on the matter invalid and that it's ridiculous feeling the way i do. just because you fuckers disagree with me doesn't make my opinion invalid. you're going to side with julie no matter what, so there's no point in trying to get through to you. so call me names, i really don't care. if you want me to drop something, then don't try and call me and out and be julie's white knight lmfao. in my head, it was dropped until you brought it back up again. i don't even care anymore, it's in the past. i'm more than happy to be cordial with you though. we're all good bruh. icon_whistling
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Cole wrote:
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Cole wrote:
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Look Jonas, it's not really worth going down the rabbit hole because it's a moot point. We're both out, your head is so far up Julie's vagina cavity that you are only going to see things through your biased opinion. When I saw her etsy, it had her full name on the profile, and there's a way to contact her via the messaging service. Sure, her identity is revealed that she is Jeff's wife, but do you know what her real name is, what she looks like, and can you contact her outside of the game? Because I sure don't know what either Jeff or Julie's true identity is. It says NO QUESTIONS ASKED, but evidently, they bypassed that rule because of her relationship with Jeff. "any other contact information or identity information".... Her ETSY ACCOUNT IS IDENTITY INFORMATION. HER ETSY ACCOUNT IS CONTACT INFORMATION OUTSIDE OF THE GAME. IT SAYS NO QUESTIONS ASKED. IT IS IN THE FUCKING RULES. It's annoying as fuck that you're trying to gaslight me to make me sound like I'm fucking crazy. Of course the mods and Jeff are going to side with her and your ass is going to side with her because you have been her little butt buddy since day one.

Now your point about her sharing her art, EVEN WITH ME. We had absolutely no feud when she shared with me her art. We had recently joined tribes together, we were getting to know each other- that was one of the very first things she said to me, when I had asked what she did for a living. So no, it wouldn't have been a "a moment to throw aside the petty squabble between you two and you could have moved forward all the better for it." You don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jonas. Stick with the IT work, because you're obviously shitty at investigating things. Your opinion isn't legitimate because you're biased AF. I thoroughly explained to you what was going on when it was happening, and you didn't come up with your BS investigation before. So sorry, I'm not going to take your ass seriously.

Well damn, Cole. I hadn't realized you felt quite THIS strongly about the whole thing. I mean shit. I haven't done a thing to you outside of taking a look at rules and laying out how that could be seen. The fact that we are both out is exactly why bias has absolutely nothing to do with this at all. So gaslighting you? No. I can see where someone could see the rules that way. But when a majority aren't, that's when it's time to accept that your interpretation was wrong. It sucks to be wrong and it can hurt, but you accept and drop it.
It does me zero good to be biased. So I assure you, this has nothing to do with a bias about anything.

Now here you do make a good point. I was unaware that that had occurred pre-merge (barely).
So here's a suggestion for you, how about you quit being a complete asshole for no reason? I'm trying to piece everything together because I don't have all the tools. I haven't been insulting you. I haven't been being an asshole to you. I've been looking at info and sharing what I've got.
You tried to tell a lot of people that you were a good guy or whatever and that you didn't say shit about anyone and when you were saying that I gave you the benefit of the doubt. All you've done since, though, is show that (at least online in this game) you're an asshole.
And to be honest, I didn't believe most of what you said before anyways. You were shifty. Information since has proven that I was correct in not believing you. You also tried to claim you hadn't said anything negative about Julie and that all of her attacks (in public) were without cause. Based on your behavior since (and knowing that Julie was in the conversation where you were talking about voting her out), I'd wager to say that was all bullshit.


Now yes, all of this is moot ultimately. It's just an online game.
So then let's call it a truce, both of us quit being assholes, and quit trying to insult people where it's not necessary (I'm not Chrissy or Julie trying to shit on you constantly here)?
dude. you don't have to tell me that i'm an asshole. i KNOW that i'm an asshole. lmfao. i feel like you're super passive aggressive dude. people that act super nice like you are always low key dicks and try to make little digs, and act so shocked when they get called out for it. how the fuck was i shifty? you acted so high and mighty and treated me like i was a huge douche bag for supposedly directly telling julie that she was stupid, which never fucking happened. when julie "called me out" she said tons of fucked up shit to me like i was a pussy, a fucker, all kinds of rude things, and i didn't see you stick up for me like you stuck up for her? yeah, that's why it was obvious that you were working with her. you adamantly defended her, even when she was in the wrong.

yeah, i find it irritating that you assumed that i "didn't put our petty arguments aside" when she ~graced~ me with showing her art. fuck me for thinking that you're biased when you literally said that you were biased about wanting julie to win in another thread. don't tell me to drop something when you made an entire post trying to call me out how wrong i am and how you deem my opinion on the matter invalid and that it's ridiculous feeling the way i do. just because you fuckers disagree with me doesn't make my opinion invalid. you're going to side with julie no matter what, so there's no point in trying to get through to you. so call me names, i really don't care. if you want me to drop something, then don't try and call me and out and be julie's white knight lmfao. in my head, it was dropped until you brought it back up again. i don't even care anymore, it's in the past. i'm more than happy to be cordial with you though. we're all good bruh. icon_whistling
Well damn. Now you’re tugging at my desire to argue almost anything with someone just to argue it, but there’s no reason to.
This is one of those situations where I’d need to sit down with someone IRL, get a coffee, drink, or whatever and just be like “Okay. Walls of text are really taking away intent and not getting things across. Let’s just talk.”
Can’t do that, though. So yep. On to better things!
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hahahah i love to argue, in case you haven’t noticed.
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hahahah i love to argue, in case you haven’t noticed.
You do. I think for me I just don't like your style of it? At least not what I've seen with my attempt to have an argument/debate with you.
When I argue with people I like keeping it cordial, polite, and just interesting. Have a good discussion, trade thoughts and ideas, etc.
Not a big fan of when it starts to get personal/overly attack-y (exception to this is with close friends where there is already a connection to know the difference and have an innate understanding of one another. Then it can get rather fun to throw down some absurd insults).
That ruins the whole point for me, really. Once it hits that point there is no longer anything to be gained except for animosity.
I find that honest and clean debate moves the world forward, while fire-y, insult spewing debate moves us backwards.

All this to say, I'm happy to engage in civil debate all of the time and will gladly hear people out and freely change my stance if shown (or convinced) to be wrong.
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Look Jonas, it's not really worth going down the rabbit hole because it's a moot point. We're both out, your head is so far up Julie's vagina cavity that you are only going to see things through your biased opinion. When I saw her etsy, it had her full name on the profile, and there's a way to contact her via the messaging service. Sure, her identity is revealed that she is Jeff's wife, but do you know what her real name is, what she looks like, and can you contact her outside of the game? Because I sure don't know what either Jeff or Julie's true identity is. It says NO QUESTIONS ASKED, but evidently, they bypassed that rule because of her relationship with Jeff. "any other contact information or identity information".... Her ETSY ACCOUNT IS IDENTITY INFORMATION. HER ETSY ACCOUNT IS CONTACT INFORMATION OUTSIDE OF THE GAME. IT SAYS NO QUESTIONS ASKED. IT IS IN THE FUCKING RULES. It's annoying as fuck that you're trying to gaslight me to make me sound like I'm fucking crazy. Of course the mods and Jeff are going to side with her and your ass is going to side with her because you have been her little butt buddy since day one.

Now your point about her sharing her art, EVEN WITH ME. We had absolutely no feud when she shared with me her art. We had recently joined tribes together, we were getting to know each other- that was one of the very first things she said to me, when I had asked what she did for a living. So no, it wouldn't have been a "a moment to throw aside the petty squabble between you two and you could have moved forward all the better for it." You don't know what the fuck you're talking about, Jonas. Stick with the IT work, because you're obviously shitty at investigating things. Your opinion isn't legitimate because you're biased AF. I thoroughly explained to you what was going on when it was happening, and you didn't come up with your BS investigation before. So sorry, I'm not going to take your ass seriously.

Well damn, Cole. I hadn't realized you felt quite THIS strongly about the whole thing. I mean shit. I haven't done a thing to you outside of taking a look at rules and laying out how that could be seen. The fact that we are both out is exactly why bias has absolutely nothing to do with this at all. So gaslighting you? No. I can see where someone could see the rules that way. But when a majority aren't, that's when it's time to accept that your interpretation was wrong. It sucks to be wrong and it can hurt, but you accept and drop it.
It does me zero good to be biased. So I assure you, this has nothing to do with a bias about anything.

Now here you do make a good point. I was unaware that that had occurred pre-merge (barely).
So here's a suggestion for you, how about you quit being a complete asshole for no reason? I'm trying to piece everything together because I don't have all the tools. I haven't been insulting you. I haven't been being an asshole to you. I've been looking at info and sharing what I've got.
You tried to tell a lot of people that you were a good guy or whatever and that you didn't say shit about anyone and when you were saying that I gave you the benefit of the doubt. All you've done since, though, is show that (at least online in this game) you're an asshole.
And to be honest, I didn't believe most of what you said before anyways. You were shifty. Information since has proven that I was correct in not believing you. You also tried to claim you hadn't said anything negative about Julie and that all of her attacks (in public) were without cause. Based on your behavior since (and knowing that Julie was in the conversation where you were talking about voting her out), I'd wager to say that was all bullshit.


Now yes, all of this is moot ultimately. It's just an online game.
So then let's call it a truce, both of us quit being assholes, and quit trying to insult people where it's not necessary (I'm not Chrissy or Julie trying to shit on you constantly here)?
dude. you don't have to tell me that i'm an asshole. i KNOW that i'm an asshole. lmfao. i feel like you're super passive aggressive dude. people that act super nice like you are always low key dicks and try to make little digs, and act so shocked when they get called out for it. how the fuck was i shifty? you acted so high and mighty and treated me like i was a huge douche bag for supposedly directly telling julie that she was stupid, which never fucking happened. when julie "called me out" she said tons of fucked up shit to me like i was a pussy, a fucker, all kinds of rude things, and i didn't see you stick up for me like you stuck up for her? yeah, that's why it was obvious that you were working with her. you adamantly defended her, even when she was in the wrong.

yeah, i find it irritating that you assumed that i "didn't put our petty arguments aside" when she ~graced~ me with showing her art. fuck me for thinking that you're biased when you literally said that you were biased about wanting julie to win in another thread. don't tell me to drop something when you made an entire post trying to call me out how wrong i am and how you deem my opinion on the matter invalid and that it's ridiculous feeling the way i do. just because you fuckers disagree with me doesn't make my opinion invalid. you're going to side with julie no matter what, so there's no point in trying to get through to you. so call me names, i really don't care. if you want me to drop something, then don't try and call me and out and be julie's white knight lmfao. in my head, it was dropped until you brought it back up again. i don't even care anymore, it's in the past. i'm more than happy to be cordial with you though. we're all good bruh. icon_whistling
I think that Jonas is the least passive aggressive out of all of us. And you can't fault him for sticking up for a woman when a man is bulling her. He was looking out for me because he's my friend. You can't fault him for that. I just think that sometimes you need to step back and look at the situation. (and I need to take my own advice) I'm not trying to start a fight with you.
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i agree with you. it's something i'll work on :)
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i take full credit for you two making up btw
thanks captain pat, julie and i are were destined to be best frenemies
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Cole wrote:
Tue Apr 10, 2018 11:32:06 pm
Patrick wrote:
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i take full credit for you two making up btw
thanks captain pat, julie and i are were destined to be best frenemies
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Cole wrote:
Tue Apr 10, 2018 11:32:06 pm
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Tue Apr 10, 2018 11:30:44 pm
i take full credit for you two making up btw
thanks captain pat, julie and i are were destined to be best frenemies
^THIS
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Wed Apr 11, 2018 11:27:11 am
I'm emotionally taxed just being an observer in all this. What a roller coaster
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